2021.10.28 18:11 Green_Equivalent8704 My first official post and Gmod scene from the classics. Alex Mercer vs Issac Clarke
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2021.10.28 18:11 Fire23GG73 Do you guys play Star Wars: The Old Republic? and if so what level is you character
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2021.10.28 18:11 bunniecooper BOTW is my fave game and look outta all of these 💙
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2021.10.28 18:11 SheilaTakeaBow4Me 'Smells Like Teen Spirit': Nirvana’s Timeless Anthem
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2021.10.28 18:11 beatsbyredee A Boogie x Sheff G x Sleepy Hallow Type Beat
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2021.10.28 18:11 itstreverr Delta Amex MQD Waiver
Does anyone know if Delta/Amex plans to extend/roll over the MQD waiver earning period through next year for status? I recently saw they mentioned some other programs they were extending but wondering if they would be extending this as well so I have some more time to earn the waiver.
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2021.10.28 18:11 N3pNep I (F29) am getting married to my fiancé (M24)in 9 days, but it is a disaster and I have cold feet.
I am a bit adamant to air everything out to the internet, but the 9 days between here and the wedding date are pretty crucial, and I need help sorting my thoughts out about this situation, so here I am.
The Intro: I met my fiancé online 6 years ago via Twitch, he was the only person willing to help me port a Windows based game to my Mac, and since that day we became fast friends and eventually fell in love.
I was unsure if I wanted to pursue a long distance relationship with him; he is from The Netherlands and I am in California, but I loved his kindness, his ambitions at the time and his way of looking at the world. He was so absorbed in the things he liked, he was studious and respectful, and very kind. We were part of this tiny community, and he would spend his nights talking to me while I would talk to him early mornings, or he would be up early and I would stay up a bit late into the night.
Life would end up taking us to our own places with the distance; I would end up finally working at specialty coffee shops, went through a couple of bad moments with housing, got through a car accident. I had a passion for becoming a barista aside from my psychology studies, but then I would move up to working a high paying job to ensure he could come here through the K-1 Visa. He eventually obtained his Bachelor's degree in Aerospace Engineering, but his Master's would be in Mechanical Engineering; something about his previous studies wore him down, he seemed so unsure about himself, he had failed a couple of exams and set himself back a bit. At my behest, he obtained a car and a job after him Bachelor degree, and he loved his job a lot. He was happy where he was at, had everything set up to keep going. Then COVID happened.
He was really struggling with his thesis. He is at the last portion of his Master's, but it was such a struggle for him to keep focused on what was needed for his thesis. We ended up applying for the K-1 visa in the middle of this, as I was settling into my high paying job. I moved into my own place, got everything set up for him to move here. Eventually, after a struggle to fight the travel ban's effect on our K-1 application, he made it here to the USA. He had to leave his great job, family, and could not finish his thesis on time, thus leaving his studies on standby. I feel a lot of guilt over this.
The Problem After Arrival: After coming here in August, and not knowing our wedding date till May/June of this year due to the rules and timing of our K-1 Visa, I have been trying to plan our wedding. Some of the time before our final set upon date, my fiancé was in his home country and dealing with his schooling and work. I understood this. After his arrival, however, there was no talks about the planning, nothing to do with it, no enthusiasm or conversation between the two of what we might want.. nothing. At my mother's behest, we went to a church and inquired about their wedding services, and I knew that was not what I wanted, but he just said it was nice.. Every time I would ask him what he thinks, he just stated that he is happy with "whatever makes me happy".
Since June/July I was stressed with wedding dress fittings, calling various vendors, making a list of vendors we needed, etc., foregoing hiring a wedding coordinator or planner. Big mistake. My work output started plummeting, I was being called in for my performance, I felt like I was not focusing on anything but the wedding at this point.
Meanwhile, my fiancé starts settling in as soon as he arrives in August.. and the house becomes more messier. Now.. I know I am messy too. I leave a pile of clothes at the edge of the bed, sometimes two. I come home and rest and sleep are more important sometimes. But.. now you can tell people live in the home. The once so-so clean living room, something that at least made me feel a bit better about myself because at least I could keep that clean when the bedroom was a mess, is no more. This has been a point of contention between us, that I am working but now this is going on.
The Big Problem: And then, 25 days before the wedding, I became burned out. I couldn't plan the wedding anymore. I had most vendors, but work was not happy with me and my performance issues, I had to toss myself a hail Mary or God knows what would happen with work.
I pushed everything, all of the wedding planning and the hiccups on him. Maybe it was a jerk move, maybe it was wrong of me. I'm trying to figure it all out.
Yesterday, I found out that the caterers that were recommended by the photographer and coordinator were not called at all, and the event rental that we were hoping to hire were also not contacted till then. He found out yesterday that the ones we were hoping to use were booked. This after my team of current vendors confirmed they were available when they made the recommendations in the beginning of this month.
I am hurt, confused, and very sad. I don't understand why he was not taking care of anything. I asked him about it and he admits that the internet had taken up all of his time, and he is not comfortable communicating over the phone and through e-mail, that he thinks a lot on what he has to say.
I really have no idea how to handle this, I feel the stress of having everything ready, of the expectations my family has on me to be married, on the failed toxic relationships I've had, traumas, and the dreams I haven't realized yet and how this all fits into marriage. I am so unsure if my fiancé could be a team player in life if this seemingly meant so little or just wasn't like.. something to talk over or work through.
I'm stumbling over words to explain, to make sense of this all, and I don't know what to do. I love him but this is just too much, my heart is breaking.
TL;DR: A story of the beginning of a long distance relationship, fiancé unwilling to help with wedding plans and now I am unsure what to do 9 days before the wedding.
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2021.10.28 18:11 Immediate-Engineer85 Torterra is ready for upcoming halloween.
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2021.10.28 18:11 Conscious-Ad-2582 I’m just a big dumb stupid idiot
Dont know anything. Can’t remember anything. Even the things that entertain me, which are very few, I forget quickly.
It’s awful really. Why can’t I be smart. The only time I think linearly is when I speak or write. Otherwise I think in fragments. Just fragmented sentences.
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2021.10.28 18:11 SlavicSavage150 Meet Prometheus.
2021.10.28 18:11 35m2_apartment "Mommy, these eye-shaped marshmallows Mr. Hansen gave me are so good!" She said, as she put one in her mouth
2021.10.28 18:11 Wifescutefeet What do you think of my wife’s feet?
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2021.10.28 18:11 odoopo Since there was this issue with the Facebook logo ... please, DO NOT rename Fedora to Metadora !
2021.10.28 18:11 saltycornhole Most tik tok moms should have their kids taken away
I’m so sick of seeing unfit mothers online specifically tik tok being praised for all their “unconventional” methods or literally for being hot. First and foremost continuously posting your child without their consent to a platform like Tik tok is so senseless, it’s not a Facebook page with your closest friends and family it’s an open ended platform that relies on algorithms to put random people on your fyp. Not to mention the incessant need for fame and money, as if that in itself isn’t embarrassing enough these parents rely on their children for that fame and money. Being a stay at home mom and having a 40 hour a week nanny for one toddler so you can have more social media time isn’t something to boast about,your child is not a commodity. Every parent is entitled to raise their child in their own way but where do we draw the line between exposure and abuse?
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2021.10.28 18:10 ActiveIsland177 Low effort meme I made
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2021.10.28 18:10 Sebarem Suche guten Mobilfunktarif!Welcher ist der beste in Sachen Preis/Leistung? Bedingungen sind unten aufgelistet.
Er soll folgende Eigenschaften haben:
2021.10.28 18:10 Chiss-Traeger Where do I buy the 20k Mammoth vendor mount?
2021.10.28 18:10 eppy8 "My sweet girlfriend Pedro" 😍 oh, to be Oscar Isaac.
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2021.10.28 18:10 rustoftensleeps My how we've grown!
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2021.10.28 18:10 Batty_Belfry This is Batman
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2021.10.28 18:10 lawschoolapp2021 Berkeley Law Early Decision - Good luck to everyone!
2021.10.28 18:10 One-Relationship3443 Yo bout to ask a girl out tomorrow any advice or just what you think
2021.10.28 18:10 carson-n-9873 Henry is out
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2021.10.28 18:10 DieMineta Forgive me if this has been said, but the snitch DOES make sense In quidditch.
I know there’s been a lot of criticism of the snitch over the years as being unfair and making the rest of the game pointless, but I strongly disagree, at least overall.
When Ron describes his first big save against the Ravenclaws in the fifth book, he sounds like a soccer goalkeeper describing a penalty kick. Anyone even passingly familiar with soccer knows that those are incredibly difficult for a keeper to save, and it’s at least partially guess work. There are three goals and only one keeper after all.
Furthermore, in the QWC we see the Irish chasers just devastate the Bulgarians to the point where the game is quickly out of reach despite Krum, who is considered one of the best seekers of the era.
I think where it seems rough is at the high school level. The chasers likely aren’t as good and so the score isn’t as intense so the weight of the snitch is elevated a bit. In general though, it seems like the snitch is the only way to give a team a chance to come back and add some amount of competitive parity to the game.
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2021.10.28 18:10 ChaoticDominance What's up with the people at Sparty?